Ask Chad: What’s the Lamest Thing You Ever Told a Girl?
Jan 27th, 2009 by admin
You asked. He answered.
So Chad… What is the LAMEST thing you ever told a girl?
Jan 27th, 2009 by admin
You asked. He answered.
So Chad… What is the LAMEST thing you ever told a girl?
I just read the email what was the lamest thing & i thought it was hilarious. I wanted to add a question to the list of things to ask Chad. My question is …what is the most embarrassing thing you have done in front of a girl & then…what did you do to recover from your embarrassement?
Thanks- I really like these revolve emails- keep them coming !!
Sincerely
Gianna D
Wilmington DE
The ring actually broke your hand?! Wow…
I wanted to know what I can do to help people at my school be Christians. My school is a public school, so they don’t talk about religion a lot. People would probably get mad at me if I tried to convince people that God is the best way, because it would “offend” people. Also, I’m not the best at speech and might get talked down by some athiests who can talk reaaly well- not saying any names. And I’m even getting influenced and am not acting the way a good Christian should sometimes! What can I do??
I get really mad at my parents and always act up. I know God wants you to obey your parents, but it gets really hard sometimes. Help!
Wow that is pretty lame! How about like something you said on a date that made the girl think you were like really wierd????
That is very funny. Some of the things guys will do to impress a girl……
1 thing a guy should know about a girl……….dont underestimate our strength.
i feel so bad for u chad but it was funny:)
Hey Chad. I have a question, what if this guy is sending you so many mixed signals, you have no idea what hes thinking about you?? like first i thought he liked me and then he doesn’t want anything to do with me and now he always talks to me.
Wow, that’s interesting… I don’t want to be mean, but that sounds pretty funny… I don’t know if I should ask a question here or not, but I’m curious… How old were you when you first “went out” with someone (your answer can involve literally going out with someone or not literally; like you hung out more at school, but you said you were boyfriend and girlfriend)?
I just wanted to submit a ? about ur book guys like girls who…
In the book you say that it isnt okay to have a boyfriend who isnt a christian and i wanted to know if the same applied to friends
If you dont have non christian friends then you cant reach out to those ppl right?
haha the ring broke through skin?! That’s hilarious! I want to ask Chad a question also because i am in love with the Jonas brothers and really hope to marry Nick Jonas so i wanted to know if you were ever so in love with a famous person.
Love,
Rebecca
p.s. i really do think im going to marry him one day <3
That’s beautiful. Great job. As Ally already said, girls know how to make a point.
And guys do this why..?
I haven’t heard of a girl breaking a boys hand with a ring, are you sure she wasn’t wearing brass knuckels? I wanted to ask chad a question. Why is it now so impure to have children 14? in the Bible people married young and had children young. why do we all just get married and have kids?
hey chad this is really funny can’t wait for revolve in september!! I have a ? ok is it ok to like a guy even though he has a girlfreind? Thanks amanda
WOW. IT ACTUALLY BROKE UR HAND TH@S BAD and again never underestimate girls strength there just as powerful as guys…..
haha thats hilarious. dont underestimate us. im stronger than most guys in my school..
Hey!
Yeah thats why you never tell a girl your stronger than her. My older bro tells me that everyday then we wrestle to c who is stronger…..i beat him every time. (and he lifts weights.) so yea. better luck next time. lol
lol poor guy yeah sometimes its not so good to make remarks like that
Hey!!!!!!! YOU hAVE GREAT STORIES!!!! What are the most imberrissing moments for u???
hey that is absolutley hilarious!!
Heyy!
Well I went to Revolve in Portland and got my picture taken with you (before I found out that every girl would want their picture with you too). lol. Anyways, thanks for the don’t text my heart thing. It’s a lot easier to tell guys I am not interested and to turn conversations around. Also, since Revolve I have found it to be a LOT easier to be myself. So, thanks.
lol that’s funny! Guess you’ll think twice about how you impress a girl, eh?
hay home slice!
so i was just at the last revolove tour and you know how you you were talking about guy A an guy B the man that i’m so in to is guy b and he go’s to my school but i dont know if he is in to me or if im just dreaming i just want to have a real convo with him but i dont want him to think im a loser. wont you help me homey G!
yeah…
one time this boy told me that one of he had lost all of the feeling in one of his hands…so I hit it really hard to see if he was lying or not and he didn’t even flinch…I still wonder if he was trying to impress me or if he was telling the truth (I hope I didn’t hurt him) ;-O
Hey Chad,
Ha ha, LOL!!! Yeah, Just goes to show, don’t underestimate a girl, we can be pretty tuff. Ummm, I’m not sure if this is where you send questions or not, but Chad, could you please give me some help? I look alot older than I realy am, and guys act realy goofy around me. Even my friends!!!!!! Please save me!!!!!! I do like this one guy, he is realy nice, and is a christian too, we used to be just friends but now…… it just feels weird. How can I tell if he really likes me? Oh yeah, have you ever done somthing goofy in a resterant to impress a girl, how did it turn out?
Always and forever,
Nicky Castle
chad, your subject in Dallas and OKC was amazing and i learned muches. Thats my word!!!! i don’t know how to ask this and make muches of sence. i’ll just see how this goes. You are awsome and a great influence. Why did you leave just before i got to get your autograph i OKC. i was with the rejoice group and i almost got your auto graph for the second time and my sister got a hug in stead!!!!!! you probly don’t remember all those people that talked to you on the inside out tour and i was one of them!!! yeah me!!!! anyway how do you know if a gut likes you. its almost valentines day and people think giving valentines is serious business. i think he likes me and he talks to me and pays attention to me. he sits behind me in math and i really like him. hes a guy B type guy and he is the tipe of guy i know would take care of me, respect me, and not cheat and all the stuff you talked about last year and this year. what do i do?
i loved the revolve tour
so i went to revolve tour this year and it was awesome it really enjoyed it so thank you for telling your little story i cant believe she broke your hand
Hey, so i’m just an average christian girl who goes to church every sunday as well as wednesdays and thursdays for different band practices. Any ways my question is how can i manage my time with school work a boy friend and going to church piano lessons and band practices???!!?!?!?! i always feel sooo swamped! I’m a freshman in high school and me and my boy friend have been dating for 10 months tomarrow! thats a long time…. and i get comments about it all the time! We met at church and after maybe a year of knowing eachother we finally started dating and well we didnt tell any of our friends at church til we had already gone out for about a month my friends got kind of upset but me and my boyfreind wanted to make sure this wasnt gonna be a short and non lasting thing b4 the whole world knew bout it. Do u think this was the best thing to do??
How do I get over a guy who moved? he was a good friend and I liked him… but he moved.
Does it feel wierd going on Revolve Tour with a bunch of girls???
hey that is sooooooooo funny:D i love heaing ur stories. Im sad i dont get 2 go 2 revolve this year( Im going to Florida the week my church is going) ok so… ? i really like this guy and a few months ago wen we were at church camp(whitehall camp ground ROX!!!) but he said he likes me nd then we would txt nd talk over the phone 4 like hrs because we live like 2 hrs away from each other well… he ended up being a real jerk he said that he didnt like me more then a friend wen the 1 time we talked he told me he wanted 2 kiss me, last time i checked u dont tell ur friends that. But i loved him and still do even though i shouldnt nd he is a jerk what do i do 2 get over him? just not talk to him… or wut?!
Ha! Wow……that’s funny! You explained that story in Orlando earlier today…you guys were all amazing!!!! I loved it soooo much!!!!!! I’ll be sure to BEG to come back next year! It really helped me connect to God more then I would sitting at home doing nothing….Can’t wait until october!!!!
God Bless
~Ashley
haha..reply to number 11 comentator Rebecca,..Nick is sooo mine!! lol ….we share an obsession!!!!!!!!
Hey Chad I Was Just Wondering how did you get on the revolve Tour?
I was at the orlando Concert and I saw you In the same hotel as me, I was Gettin out of the Hotel elavator and you were walking in and i was in My pajamas and My leader and Room mate were too I was Just wondering if You remeber Seeing us Even though You probably saw alot of other teen girls in pjs In the same Hotel LOL.
Well Sorry we Didnt Say Hi We Were in shock And didnt Notice It was You til After You went In the Elavator :/ Love Ya chad Oh and That Grizzle Joke Is Flippin Funny!!
OMG chad! you are amazing! just got bak from seeing you in the revolve tour in orlando! you are a very great speaker and you rely keep everyone interested! we all love hearing your stories. your soo funny!! and i absolutly love both of your books! i cant wait to see you again! last year you were amazing at revolve but this year you really topped yourself! yeah just telling you that you are a great inspiration and you really know how to mix funny with seriousness…which ive never met sum1 who culd! your so down o earth. thanks sooo much for the great lesson!
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HEY CHAD!! i just got home from the revolve tour today, and it was absolutely AMAZING!! i bought your book. and am dying to start reading it tonight, ha. okay.. i had a ? there is this guy at my school, and he has a girlfriend, yet he talks to me more than he ever talks to her, and he tells me everything!! he only sees his gf in the hallway and after school.. and i have like 3 classes with him! we hang out a lot. we talk on the phone for hours at night. People say we flirt and talk sooo much.. that we should be going out.. i kinda like him.. but i dont want to ruin the friendship we have.. i’ve known him since kindergarten, and we are like BEST FRIENDS!! I need some advice. should i stop liking him, and work on making our friendship last hopefully a lifetime, or what..? Do you think he likes me back, or is he just being friendly? I’m really confused with the whole situation :S please help. thanks
hey chad,
i loved the revolve tour orlando! it was amazing! you are a really good speaker and im really happy you were there to talk to us about guys. you are so funny and im really glad you were there.
Hey! I was just in orlando with u guys and had a great time. U were talkin bout guy a and guy b and i like a guy who is like guy b. i have known him my how life and really like him. i always talk to him bout some georgia football, but i think i might be stuck in the friend zone. if i ask him out and he says no i don’t want it to change the way we hang out. what should i do. please help me dude
hey chad, my friend and i were wondering if u ever took a game like us girls do and is ”what animal where u in a former life and what dose it say about ur hairstyle” a real quiz
hey chad, my frind and i where wondering if u ever took a quiz like us girls nd ”what animal where u in a former life and what does it say about ur hairstyle” a real quiz
Your a really great speaker and i just was wondering what made you so confident.i’m 17 and it’s hard for me to get up at my church and sing even though I do it well. its just so nerve wrecking, and im holding back when i should just let go. i just dont know how.. any advice that might help?
hey Chad,
i had a quick question for you.I just got done from going to the revolve tour two days ago which was in orlando florida and i didn’t get the chance for you to sign my book is there any way i could send it to you to sign and if so where do i send it??I had already boughten the book way before revlove at my christian book store so i am already done with it and really loved it to so i was just wonderinf if you could sign it.????
All access was so much fun i’m going to come back every year
thank you for the help with the boy stuff!!!!!
abigail from orlando
Hi Chad,
I don’t know if this is where I ask questions but if not, hopefully someone will get this to you.
My question is: Why is it that some girls attract guys and some girls seem invisible to them? It seems like guys just don’t see me. I’m a senior in high school and have never been asked out but my girl friends have been asked out multiple times. I know that you have said that a girl should want to attract the right guy and not just guys in general, and I agree, but is it normal to not have guys even notice me?
Thank you for your time.
Sincerely,
Caitlin
Hey Chad. I was at revolve. And I have only one single question. It has nothing to do with boys or your personal dating experiences. My question is…what did he say? When you were sitting in that room and your hands and feet were tied up and you finally realized you’d been messing it up, what did he say? Not Joe..or whatever his name was. I know what he said. What did God say?
-Audrey
Hi my name is Alyson and im 17 soon to be 18 in march 5. Any way my question is why do many people find love in all the wrong places and why does it seem to some people that the right guy aint real? Also how did you find your self-worth in God and what he wanted you to be? I mean my youth leader sees a leader in me and im training to become a youth leader but i dont see a leader in me? is it because im blinded to it and only other people can see it?
thanks for your time and advice,
Sincerely,
Alyson
Hey Chad! I am comfortable with who I am and stand up for my convictions. “Who I am hates who I’ve been.” I used to be someone entirely different before I finally gave it all over to GOD, but it’s still hard to get away from who I was. People still remember and they bring it up. Some guys think they can get whatever they want from me. I am not for their pleasure… I am a child of GOD! Why can some guys not respect that? Why do they play with my heart? This one guy (let’s call him Tim) who I really liked, asked me to sit by him at our homecoming game and hang out afterward, but I couldn’t because I already had plans. I thought Tim was really sweet and we were good friends at the time. The two weeks later, he had a girlfriend and neglected to mention that to me. We kept hanging out alone at school during our lunch break and then as I was going to tell him how I felt, he told me he had a girlfriend. Shortly after that, Tim tried to get more intimate with me and even the teachers at the school thought we were dating. It was then that I realized I wasn’t dealing with this the right way and that his girlfriend would be hurt if she found out about her boyfriend and me. I told him a few days later how I felt and he was fine with it, then that night he texted me and told me that we shouldn’t hang out anymore and a lot more. I got mad and we fell apart. Then a few weeks later, Tim texted me and told me how he wanted his friend back and how I was being a bad friend. We grew closer again and his girlfriend and him broke up. But then when winter ball came around, I was going with a good guy friend of mine and at the dance, Tim told me he had almost asked me to winter ball, but that he remembered i was already going with someone else. I didn’t know what to say and we remained friends. Then this week his ex-girlfriend and him got back together. I was starting to picture each other together again. I just feel like my emotions are being toyed with. I made it clear to him who I am and I’m confident with who I am. So why is it so hard when I get hurt? I feel like I did something and that makes me feel less trusting. I don’t change who I am, but i then put a wall up and don’t trust people easily. I don’t understand why I can get so worked up over some guys that are jerks, but then just not care (in a dating sense) about guys that are actually nice and gentlemen-like to me? Any advice?
Why did you decide to work with teenage girls on the revolve tour?
You must feel a little wierd being around hundreds of girls every weekend!
Hi. My name is Rebecca. I went to the Orlando 2009 Revolve Tour and, I got to say, it was pretty awesome! But I’m writing this just to say thank you for writing your book, “Guys Like Girls Who..” It has totally helped out! I’m attracting the guys I want to attract and I’m liking the guy on side “B”. And my friends have seen my change in guys too! So I am just thanking you for writing the book!
Sincerely,
Rebecca Griswold
hey today when you were talkin about dont txt my heart……….i\well i mean like i boke up with my boyfriend last year and we have been liking eachother off and on (he has a gf)…..but anyways so i just recieved a txt that said i think i like u!! wud that fall under the circumstance of “txtin the heart?”
Hi Chad,
lol I was at the Revolve Tour in HOUSTON TX YAY!!!!! lol i have a question to ask. Well why do ALOT of guys forget important holidays like Valentine Day. My boyfriend is one please get back to it..:P
Hey Chad. I was at revolve today and my little bro totally reminds me of you! He would totally get on stage in front of 1000s of girls in red high heels! lol!
Anyways i went to Revolve last year and ever sinve last year my confidece has grown so much whether it comes to relationships with guys, friends or family. My faith in God has also grown a lot too just because i have become in better contact with everyone in my life!
My question for you is…… What should i do? One of my really good friends likes me and is like basicly stalking me. He doesnt stop texting me or every not wanting to know wat i am doing. But here is the problem i like his best friend. I dont want them to get mad at each other but at the same time i dont like how he always wants to know wat im doing. Do you think its ok that i like his best friend?
sincerly
samira
Heeey Chad and friendss
i just wanted to say wazzzzzzzzzzup? I went to the revolve tour in Houston today and last night and i just wanted to say i had a blast! Thanks Chad for all the help on guys and everything. But I was wondering is it wierd for someone to have a shy boyfriend who is afraid to give them harmless hugs? What should they do? Help! Well talk to you guys laterr!
-Brooke Bowen
Hey chad I was at the revolve tour in houston this weekend and you are sooo amazing thank you for all the guy advice and I love ur book. My name is Kirstie idk u may member me but probably not anyways u signed my book and that meant alot to me. um… I had a question why is it that it seems like when u and ur boyfriend break up that he moves on so fast while ur still crying over him for the next few weeks and say this boyfriend really respected and cared about u like a guy b kinda guy? love ya Chad btw ur also very hilarious
God Bless u
Hey Chad,
My name is Jacqueline I have a very usual problem you probly hear alot about, But it’s not oh i don’t have a boyfriend. I just don’t have many friends. I trust God that someone is out there to be a good friend it just seems like everybody else it to wrapped up in their own drama to even to listen to me. I really don’t know what to do about this?
my ex boy firand is dating my best friand and i have a hard time with it so moch i was at revolve. i housten tx
Hey Chad, I was at the revolve tour today and last night ( in Denver.) I was the last one or one of the last one’s in your signing line last night and got to talk to you briefly about my best guy friend… The one who is in Hollywood and has decided to send me out of his life. He keeps saying he does not need my friendship any more… but i need his. Well you told me to smile and say best luck to you- and you also said not to let him come in and out of my life when he needs a friend. Which makes since because all he is doing is using me. Well i tried to smile and say best luck and i did not get what i wanted from him. I need him and cant let him go, but i also dont want him in my life if he will not treat me as if im not good enough anymore.
Chad will you please tell me what im doing wrong….. i want to know where i messed up.
I love you, you have helped so much already.
Olivia
dear Chad,
i thank you so much for speaking at the revolve tours and i also thank you for giving us girls advice on guys. because believe we think about them all the time and never really know what they are thinking or what they want. one question for you is, “do guys like or want girls to know their standards and tell them first off?” Like do they like girls who have high standards and won’t comprimise them for anything? because the last few relationships i have had with guys has been me being the rebound girl. and i felt like sometimes they were testing me to see how far i would let them go and i didn’t know if they wanted me to say no and show them my standards or what. idk i just get confused with guys. of course every girl does. LOL. Also, Chad, i’m tired of being the girl who chases the guys. i want them to pursue me first and what should be the first thing i look for in a guy? lately i’ve been trying to watch or oberve the guys around me. like how they interact with teachers, family, friends, how they view themeselves etc. but the trouble is i don’t know what to look for. any ideas? sorry this was a lot thrown at you…. but thanks for listening. …. o P.S i know they have promise keepers or used to have promise keepers for guys but honestly you and some other dudes and girls should do a revolve tour type thing for guys. cuz i mean guys are confused to and i’m sure would like to know things about girls and God.
Chad that would hurt and i hang around a lot of guys and i had a lot of say that to me. i punched them really hard and i think i broke their hand :/ but i proved to them that i could punch. i went to the revolve tour and i loved it every time you came out!!!!!!!!! i really want to come back next year bye!!!!!!!!
Those were great but I have a question. ok I’ve gotten asked out by of a lot of guy but… I have not gone out with any of them, but my question is, is why do guys make other girls or other guys ask you out for them why don’t they just ask you out themselves. And even though I understand it if your a shy person but I think that it would be an opportunite for an okward situation (but thats just me) Why don’t guys just ask you out themselves, they aparently like you enough to spend there time with you.
do guys hold a grudge against you if you dump them for being a bad boyfriend?
hey chad!!!! i saw you at the revolve tour this yr. (2008) in Philly and last yr.! and i just wanted to let you know that i m soooo glad that the Lord decied to save ur soul!
you have been a great help to me and have answered a lot of my Q’s about guys. ur book is great and a must read for all. so i just wanted to give ya a little encouragement and tell ya ur GREAT!!!!
CeCelia
HEy chad that thing was kinda funny and i remember you telling that at the revolve tour. i mean its funny but i feel really bad for you lol.
hey!! i am a HUGE FAN!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS!! SMILE!!! JESUS LOVES YOU!!!